Category: Blog

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY OR NOT

Here we are again another year marking an anniversary of something important, whatever occasion this may be your celebrating we all remember one date on the calendar every year, that…
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SAFETY TIPS ON THE ROAD

The highway is full of vehicles of all shapes sizes and colors. We see motorcycles, vans, trucks, semi’s, busses, you name it, the passengers themselves and how some of us…
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PROCRASTINATION DON’T WAIT TODAY IS THE DAY

Procrastination, don’t we all do this at one point or another? I’m sure we have all heard the saying over and over “we only have one life live it” this…
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FIND THE BEAUTY AND POSITIVES IN EVERY SITUATION

Ever since I can remember I always saw the beauty in everything no matter what, this could be a person who others may not find attractive, instead I chose to look…
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ARE YOU MEAN?

Have you ever consider yourself mean? unless a person is downright cruel, ruthless or they are a psychopath-sociopath without a conscience (no one’s labeling anyone here) at one point or…
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LISTEN TO WHAT YOUR CRAVINGS ARE TELLING YOU

  All of us at one time or another have found ourselves craving certain foods, while some of us crave various junk foods high in calories otherwise known as empty…
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GOD CREATED YOU AND GAVE YOU A GIFT LETS FIND IT

Do you ever feel you have to conform to everyone’s wishes or the likeliness of who they think you should be by consisting of a character they want you to…
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TRAVEL TIPS FROM ABROAD

GREAT YOU’VE DECIDED TO TRAVEL EITHER WITH YOUR FAMILY, FRIENDS, PARTNER, OR JUST YOURSELF. I HAVE SOME GREAT MUST HAVE AND DO TRAVELING TIPS TO HELP YOU ON THIS EXCITING ADVENTURE.  …
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ARE YOU A VICTIM OF MENTAL ABUSE?

I’ve been a Domestic Abuse Counselor for over 20 years, one of the most difficult cases I deal with are the ones where the woman come to me saying they’re…
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GIVING EVERYTHING YOU’VE GOT

To all appearances, the giver is an empathetic and caring person, actually, he or she is a people-pleaser and a co-dependent. The compulsive giver is trapped of his own talkfest…
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DEFINING HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS VS ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS

Here you will find the difference between healthy relationships vs abusive relationships. some things to look for in a healthy relationship. Emotional security in a relationship is Being appreciated Being…
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MEN CAN BE ABUSED TOO THERE IS HELP

We don’t hear a lot about men being in abusive relationships. Certain studies have shown that more than 40% of men are indeed in abusive relationships but most are afraid to…
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IS TODAY THE END OR THE BEGINNING

Have you ever looked at your relationship? marriage? life? as if you can’t take one more day? well, I’m here to give you some things to look at when it…
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ALL ABOUT LOVE

Random thoughts about love Love is life, ideally, it is passed down through generations. You must absorb enough love before you can give it to others. Once you’ve absorbed enough…
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HELPFUL TIPS ON DATING WITH CHILDREN AFTER DIVORCE

As we all know divorce is one of the most difficult things couples can face. When children are involved it can make this process even more difficult, especially when the parents start…
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DISCOVERING YOUR PARTNERS LOVE LANGUAGE

Having had my own life experiences on love and books I have read on this subject. I have concluded that we all show a certain style when we are in…
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THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN’S BRAINS IN RELATIONSHIPS

There is scientific proof that the brains of men and women are quite different. Four distinct parts of each brain studied included, the processing center, chemistry, structure, and activity. The…
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GOLDEN TIPS ON REBUILDING TRUST IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

You did the unspeakable and broke your partner’s trust and in the process, their heart is shattered. No matter what you did, it’s not going to be easy for your…
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OBSERVING MEMORIAL DAY AND ITS SPECIAL MEANING

Memorial Day, is a Federal Holiday celebrated on the last Monday of May and its meaning is to remember the People both men and woman who lost their lives in…
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SIGNS YOU HAVE FOUND YOUR SOULMATE

Seems we hear a lot about soul mates these days. Some may ask the question, “What is a soul mate?” Seems every time we turn around we’re hearing a person…
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10 TIPS FOR A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

Many of us have already heard about healthy and unhealthy relationships but defining what is healthy and what is not healthy can be tricky sometimes. There are so many twists,…
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THE SCIENCE OF LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT

Love, at first sight, is the basis for many real life love stories, movies, novels and even has been scientifically proven. A number of studies have been done and it’s…
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FUNNY AND INSPIRING STORIES ON HOW PEOPLE MET THEIR SIGNIFICANT OTHER

Romantic love is one of the strongest emotions we will ever have in our lifetime if you have ever experienced this kind of love it can bring you the most…
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TRUE STORIES OF LOVE AND MARRIAGES 50 YEARS PLUS

Through the years I have run into many elderly married couples, I can’t help but ask them questions such as to how they managed a successful marriage for so many…
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INTUITION LEARN TO TRUST YOUR INNER VOICE OF SPIRIT

Let’s explain what Intuition is and how to recognize this gift we are all born with, although recognizing that some of us are more highly in tune with this gift, therefore, a…
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SIGNS YOU’RE BEING VISITED BY A LOVED ONE FROM THE AFTERLIFE

Signs your loved ones are near you may come in many different forms. For instance, say you just lost your mother and you’re not dealing with her passing very well.…
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MAKE YOUR ARGUMENTS CONSTRUCTIVE WITH LOVE AND UNDERSTANDING

Arguing is common during relationships if couples are not having some sort of disagreement or argument believe it or not there is something wrong in the relationship. Either one or…
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LIVING YOUR LIFE TO THE FULLEST WITH THE THINGS MONEY JUST CAN’T BUY

We can all appreciate the material things in life such as Jewelry, fancy cars, brand name clothing etc, the best money can buy. These things are fun and glamorous, some items…
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TIPS ON SUMMER FUN THAT DOESN’T HAVE TO BE EXPENSIVE

We are heading into Summer, the sun is shining the temperatures are rising, let the summer fun and activities begin, it’s all there for the taking. There are endless things…
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HOW TO CENTER YOURSELF

Have you ever asked yourself about what all this talk is about centering yourself is and what it would consist of? Some people center themselves by going to a certain…
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LAUGHTER AND IT’S AMAZING HEALTH BENEFITS

In my lifetime I have seen countless comedians come and go, some I found to be foul and vulgar rather than funny and some were classic comedians that made me…
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DO YOU PROCRASTINATE? YOU MAY WANT TO READ THIS

5/16/14 Hi Dad I just wanted to write you a letter today and let you know I was thinking about how you taught me so much, sometimes I felt like…
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THE BENEFITS OF AN EXTENDED FAMILY FOR EVERYONE INVOLVED

Many people become members of an extended/blended family whether it’s a death or a divorce that causes a loss of one’s spouse or partner that creates an opportunity for Grandmother’s,…
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LOVE COMMUNICATION AND CONNECTION

We all have our own ways of perceiving love. You could be giving all the love that you have to your partner, but because your delivery method does not match…
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DOES ANYONE HAVE A CERTAIN PHRASE OR SAYING THAT THEY CAN’T STAND?

I took a survey of what kinds of sayings and phrases that people disliked the most and they came up with some pretty interesting things to say here we go.…
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GOT TO LOVE TECHNOLOGY, ARE YOU READY? LETS GO!

Ever since I was old enough to remember I was a very creative child and quite the inventor. I remember lying in bed as I stared out my bedroom window…
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DO YOU HAVE A HAPPY HEART SONG?

There are countless songs written about many different situations in life. Quite possibly you’ve had the unfortunate experience to have lost a loved one, either through their passing, or the…
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ARE YOU UNHAPPY? IT MAY BE TIME TO SEEK HELP

Happiness is a goal most people try to reach every day. For some, they never have to work at this at all. They’re just happy go lucky all the time.…
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IS GUILT RUINING YOUR LIFE? HEAL YOURSELF WITH LOVE AND FORGIVENESS

Is guilt running or ruining your life? It could be and you may not even realize it. Guilt is a normal healthy human emotion that we will all experience at some…
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TIPS ON BEING THANKFUL AND GRATEFUL

For everything that has ever happened to you in this lifetime to bring you to the point of where you are today, Believe it is happening and happened for a…
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THE BASICS OF BEING A TRULY GREAT FRIEND

The importance of friendship has a lot more value than one might think, for instance, things in life come and go but your friends are there for you through thick…
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RISE AGAIN WITH THE POWER OF FORGIVENESS

Many times I have heard this from various people in my life ask the question, “Where was God when I was hurting?” Where was God when a tragedy happened to…
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TOP 35 CHEESIEST PICK-UP LINES EVER

I have done some research and found some of the Top cheesiest pick-up lines ever. Some will make you roll your eyes in wonder and some may make you laugh,…
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A TYPICAL DAY AT PT CABRILLO LIGHTHOUSE STATION

Another bright sunny day at Point Cabrillo lighthouse stationed in Caspar California. as I’m opening my eyes for the first time. I leap out of bed as if I were…
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WHEN CHOOSING A PARTNER

When choosing a partner, keep some of these things in mind.   SHARE THE TEARS Make sure they’re the one that makes you laugh until you cry. When you’re crying your…
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TOP 10 WAYS TO START YOUR DAY ON THE OPPOSITE SIDE OF DEPRESSION

Don’t we all at times need some cheering up? Well if you never find yourself needing to be cheered up, then good for you. You may already be someone who…
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RELATIONSHIP ADVICE FOR 40 AND OVER

If you are after 40, relationship advice can come as a real breath of fresh air to you or your relationship. It’s very easy to get stuck into routines and…
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TOP 10 WAYS TO BE A GREAT GIRLFRIEND

Have you noticed that some girls just can’t help self destructing their relationships? Even when they have a great guy who treats them well, they start committing relationship mistakes that…
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SATURDAY MORNINGS AT THE LIGHTHOUSE

It’s a Sunny Saturday morning on the Pacific Coast. My sister and I wake to find our parents still sleeping, so we close their door so as not to wake…
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100 WAYS TO SHOW YOUR LOVE FOR THE MAN IN YOUR LIFE

1. Learning how to communicate with your partner is one of the most important things you will have in your Relationship 2. Let him know how important he is to…
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RELATIONSHIPS AND IMPROVING PERSONAL LIFE

  HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR PERSONAL LIFE AND RELATIONSHIP When you are trying to improve your relationship, this can be hard to do if you are not strong enough to…
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TOP 25 THINGS YOU CAN DO FOR YOUR LOVER

There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. All couples go through rough times and experience difficulties in maintaining a healthy relationship.   Try to take time to keep the…
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ARE YOU CONTEMPLATING AN AFFAIR?

It’s a very common thing to hear of people falling in love with a married man or woman. Ever been married and find yourself in love with another person? Most of…
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SILENCE ISN’T ALWAYS GOLDEN

I have talked with many woman who are not sure what brought their relationship to the point they are needing therapy, some hadn’t even argued with their husbands or partner,…
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20 THINGS TO LOOK FOR IN A SOULMATE

Its time and your thinking to yourself your ready to find your lifetime partner in the big sea of life. You’re thinking, “Where do I start?” The first thing you…
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HOW TO FIGHT WITH YOUR LOVER

The opposite of love is not hate, its indifference. Arguments don’t occur if two people don’t care about each other. Surprisingly, the first year of your relationship, it’s normal to…
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LESSONS FROM YOUR BROKEN HEART

Here it comes again, you find yourself with another failed attempt at love, whether it be a Divorce, or another failed relationship, your alone once again. So you go through…
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POWERFUL WOMEN AND RELATIONSHIPS

Strong Successful career minded women may seem like they have it all but sometimes they feel like they are not finding the partner they need in their life. Don’t let…
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TURN YOUR LOVE LIGHT ON TO FIND TRUE LOVE

Falling in love with yourself may seem arrogant, but it’s more important than you might think. Turn your love light on to attract the right person to fall in love…
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AM I CODEPENDENT?

Codependency is an emotional dependency on a relationship that is not healthy and is very dysfunctional. This condition can destroy a person’s relationship’s health and effect their jobs and careers.…
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AWAKENING TO LOVE WORKSHOP

  WHO SHOULD ATTEND? SINGLES IN SEARCH OF TRUE LOVE AND/OR THEIR SOULMATE INDIVIDUALS WHO WANT TO INCREASE THE QUALITY OF ALL THEIR RELATIONSHIPS COUPLES WITH THE DESIRE TO INVITE…
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RECOGNIZING EMOTIONAL ABUSE IN RELATIONSHIPS

With emotional abuse you may start to notice hurtful little things being said in the beginning of your relationship and you may try to brush it off at first as…
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BENEFITS OF A HEALTHY SEX LIFE IN THE GOLDEN YEARS

There are many benefits to having a healthy sex life as we mature, or as some would like to refer to it as “The Golden Years.” One might think to…
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LOVE LETTERS FROM THE LIGHTHOUSE

I hope you enjoy my book, “Love Letters from the Lighthouse” Love letters is a work in progress spanning the length of my life. My inspiration for this book is…
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TOP 10 REASONS RELATIONSHIPS FAIL

Top 10 Reasons Why Relationships Fail Have you ever wondered why your relationships fail? Let’s take a look at this scenario: It looks like you’ve finally met the true love…
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TODAYS MODERN WORLD OF ONLINE DATING

In today’s modern world of dating its easier than ever to meet someone and find a date, with just a touch of your fingertips, you can find another person eager…
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HOW TO COMMUNICATE DURING DISAGREEMENTS

Most people have never learned how to communicate. Without this skill, a person is handicapped in an intimate relationship. Without being able to express themselves and listen to another, partners…
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INTRODUCTION TO ACTS OF KINDNESS

On a Saturday afternoon, I went to my Catholic Church in Newport Oregon,  Being raised in a Strict Catholic family I said to myself, Sherry you haven’t gone to confession in…
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